As nearly always: It depends …
It depends on the meaning of “good-looking”. Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder, as you know.
You can’t actually reduce “good-looking” just to physical appearance, the overall impression always integrates the physical appearance with social skills, with “how good you get along with one another” etc.
We know from research that the first 30 seconds of a first meeting count the most – the word of the “first impression” is more than right here!
So, if we generalize “good-looking” to “making a good first impression” (with “the look” being a great part of that!) – then yes, good-looking people get a better start!
You may ponder the question if what is true in relationships between guys and girls perhaps doesn’t count in business-relationships. Aren’t we supposed to listen to reason when it comes to business-relationships?
I don’t really think so. In the end we are all human, so if there are no preeminent reasons against the better looking person he/she will get the job.
That said, nobody who got (and kept!) a decent job should be blamed for “getting that job only because of his/her physical assets” – in the long run other personal, social and professional qualities outweigh the looks!
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Poshmonkey said – Thu, 26 Jun 2008 21:54:31 -0000 ( Flag Edit Link )
Thanks for sharing your experience with us, Andrew. Not dressing properly (or appropriately for this particular kind of situation) is one of the faux pas that candidates do in a job interview and it is surprising that often they don’t realise it by themselves. But maybe he thought as long as he is wearing brand names, clean ones … he can’t go wrong. Well, it reminds me of an experience I had in Italy as a recruiter seven years ago. There was a guy who walked in our recruitment agency applying for a job. Well, he was wearing a tracking suit. He thought that the interview with us – the recruitment agency – would be less important. He perceived us as job brokers, didn’t take us that serious and he thought that the interview that really counts is in the end the one at the company (the prospective employer). Unfortunately we didn’t take his application further because we knew that if he doesn’t understand to be dressed professionally all the time he might do the same with a company’s clients later on and that is something we didn’t wanted to risk.